Your other option, which I don’t advise, is to please everyone else but yourself. Be comfortable with some uncertainty and mystery in your life. Focus on your dreams, your greatness, your success.
This is the time of year where people conduct self-assessments and change, improve, or challenge aspects of themselves. I challenge you to just be yourself and love every ounce of it.
Golden nugget: Don’t allow your parents to interfere in your love life. You have a purpose in this world, a passion, a dream to be fulfilled. You have to truly believe that you deserve greatness, and that becoming a Chronic Dater, like I was, is a distraction.
You are capable of choosing who you want to invest your time with. I don’t think those that are in a relationship are nearly as obsessed with their current relationship status as you are about yours. You cannot make a man love you, and even if you could, would you? This coming year, I ask you to start your own habesha recipe book, become authors, record that first album, train for that marathon, save for your dream home, travel the world, graduate, sell that invention, visit your family back home, become an entrepreneur, do what others fear in doing, network with purpose, apply for a better job, spoil yourself, love yourself, become a leader in your community, speak up more, start that non-profit, succeed, blossom and be full of health for Y2013.
Do you know anything about the culture or people, it is rich and ancient.
If your a guy do you want some hyper competitive masculine partner or a loving, compassionate lady for a bride and wife? She actually throw a dish at bowel at him when he asked for a little soup. His next girlfriend was from Africa and needless to say it was not an issue.
I have been to Africa a few times and been on a couple of safaris and off road adventures, as have my parents and brother, who actually goes a lot.
In your pursuit of natural wild beauty of the females, do not forget to check out some real nature too.
Emperor and statesman Haile Selassie, as well as famous musicians (very ecliptic music) and long distance runners. Ethically they are mostly Oromo and Amhara if that means anything to you.
Addis Ababa is the capital and in my opinion is the only place to travel if you are looking to connect in a long-term relationship for practical reasons like logistics and population density. The real question is where can you meet Ethiopian ladies?